e. Preparing body & mind
In the days around the ceremony, give your body and mind space to settle. Most facilitators will share specific guidelines — typically avoiding alcohol, recreational substances, certain foods, and intense stimulation. These aren't arbitrary rules; they help you arrive more open and receptive.
A traditional dieta—usually 3 to 7 days of avoiding salt, sugar, caffeine, alcohol, red & pork, and sexual activity—is meant to calm the system and heighten inner awareness. If that feels too intense, a lighter 'cleanse' can still help: eat simple, plant-based meals, stay hydrated, eat early, get proper sleep, and reduce screen time and overstimulation.
Beyond the physical, prepare your emotional and mental space too. Practices like meditation, journalling, quiet time in nature, or talking with someone you trust can help you arrive with more calm, presence, and openness.
f. Setting your intention
Reflect on why you are drawn to this experience. A clear, honest intention can anchor and guide you during the ceremony and beyond. This intention might be a question, a theme, or even a gentle request to the plant itself—such as: 'Show me what I need to learn.' You might also take time to notice the different voices or feelings within you—some curious, some cautious, some perhaps seeking clarity or healing. Simply acknowledging these parts, without trying to change them, can bring a sense of calm and inner coherence.
Intention doesn't need to be dramatic or perfectly articulated. It just needs to be yours. Hold it gently, though. An intention gripped too tightly becomes just another expectation — and the ceremony may have something entirely different in store.
g. Letting go of expectations
Approach the experience with as much openness as you can. Let go of assumptions about what should happen. Some people experience vivid visions, others feel subtle shifts. Some journeys are blissful; others are difficult and confronting. All are valid, and none are a measure of whether the experience 'worked.'
Be cautious about consuming too many accounts of other people's experiences beforehand. Every journey is different, and other people's stories — however well-intentioned — can quietly shape what you expect to happen. That expectation then gets in the way of what actually does.
Research suggests that unmanaged expectations are among the strongest predictors of difficult integration afterwards (Gomes, 2017). Not because expectations are wrong — but because rigid ones leave no room for what actually arrives. Try to stay curious, humble, and receptive — before, during, and after the ceremony.
h. Practical logistics
Plan to travel with flexibility in mind. Follow the packing list from the retreat centre. When possible, block off a full day — or more — before and after the retreat for rest and reflection. The days either side of ceremony matter more than most people expect.
i. Connect before you arrive
If the opportunity exists, connect with other participants before the ceremony — whether through an introductory gathering, a shared meal, or even a brief conversation. Even if that's not possible, knowing that you'll be held within a group — not doing this alone — can itself be grounding.
Research on ayahuasca outcomes shows that community connection is one of the strongest protective factors for integration (Cowley-Court et al., 2023, Frontiers in Psychology — n=1,630). The relational container doesn't begin at ceremony; it begins whenever you first meet the people you'll share it with.